“This is what I would like to see ever-more deeply in you: childlike trust in Divine Mother, devotion, openness to Her guidance and love, holding nothing back from Her because you are completely Hers.”
God’s love will never change
1 April 5, 1995
If we feel God’s love in someone’s love for us, then that is right and good. I remember once in India telling the woman saint, Anandamoyi Ma, how much I and others in America loved her. Her reply was, “There is no love except God’s love.”
The worldly ego might take her reply as a put-down, but I understood it as a reminder that we can truly love others only to the degree that we do so consciously as instruments of God’s love.
It is easy to feel love for those who are kind and good, and easier still if they love us. But the test of godly love is to be able to feel it also for those who hate us. And especially for those who are determined to destroy us. God says to us, “They are My children, too.” In other words, “If you love Me, you must love them also, for they too are Mine.” We must love not only them, but all the tests that God sends us.
Ultimately, the only important thing you can do in life is love God. The only fact that truly matters in life is that God loves you.
It is a simple fact that the more we try to do good, the more enemies we will have—along with those who sincerely love, appreciate, and support us. But even were everyone to turn against us, the supremely important fact of God’s love will never change. The tests we face, therefore, are always blessings. If nothing else, they inspire us to keep that one divine priority fixed ever before our gaze. Everything else passes. Our relationship with God is eternal. He is our own, as no one else ever will or ever can be.
The solution to our worries is love, and more love—divine love, not egoic love (the ego’s love is rooted in likes and dislikes). As the Bible says, “Perfect love casteth out fear.”
“Blessed are the pure at heart, for they shall see God.” When your love for Him is effortless and complete, you will have Him.
In divine friendship, Swami Kriyananda
Opening oneself to God’s love
2 April 4, 1995
I understand you’re on a retreat. That’s wonderful! We all need to retreat now and then, not for recreation, but to re-create ourselves.
In thinking about love, it’s important not to emphasize someone’s personal love for you, or yourself as the receiver. What’s important on retreat is to understand as deeply as possible God’s love for you, and yours for God. He loves you far more than any human being ever could—far more than you could ever love yourself, except in Him. So don’t be afraid to open yourself to that love completely, inviting it into all the dusty corners of your heart, and sweeping them clean.
On retreat, one thinks of God’s love and of other eternal verities. But it is important also to translate that love onto this practical plane of existence. Here are two sayings from a new book of mine called, Do It NOW! that you might enjoy, for we all get our feelings hurt occasionally:
Don’t close your heart, when your feelings have been hurt. For contraction causes its own pain. How others behave toward you is like the weather: not under your control. But how you behave, and what your feelings are, need be determined by no one but yourself. To accept a hurt from anyone is to suffer twice.
Be not afraid to love. Even if your love is unrequited, you will be the richer for having loved. Water that doesn’t flow grows stagnant.
The more you feel God’s love in your heart, the more important it is to channel that love to everyone. As I’ve written in Do It NOW!
Wish the best for everybody, and, in the very act of blessing them, you yourself will be blessed. A stained-glass window, when the sunlight pours through it, is brighter and more beautiful itself than the light with which it graces a church.
God bless you, Swami Kriyananda
Inner stillness of heart
3 April 4, 1995
Retreats generally are supposed to be times of self-examination. The important points to remember on retreat are these: There is only one true goal in life: to please God; to come closer to Him; to love Him; to unite our souls to Him.
The way to know God is by inner stillness of heart. This stillness is attained by loving more fully, more calmly, more wholeheartedly, never by deadening the emotions or hardening our hearts against those who would harm us.
Nothing and no one truly belongs to us; we are His alone. Joy is ours when we accept fully that we are God’s, that God’s nature is joy, and that His nature is our nature, in our souls.
I’ve always loved a statement of St. Jean Vianney’s: “If you knew how much God loves you, you would die for joy!”
In divine friendship,